THE TEN BIGGEST MISTAKES WOMEN MAKE IN A RELATIONSHIP
If you can get a handle on the things on this list, I
guarantee you'll notice your relationship drastically
change for the better.
Here you go:
1. Flipping out if he looks at or talks to another woman. It's a man's nature to look, getting on his case shows you're insecure, which is a huge turn-
off. If you find yourself getting jealous
whenever a woman is within his vicinity, you need
to do an honest check in with yourself. At the root
of it,
there is either trust missing from the relationship or you need to build up your self-esteem.
2. Not respecting his personal space. If he's in a bad mood or doesn't feel like talking, leave him
alone and let it be. Most guys don't like to talk
about their issues the way women do.
They prefer to pull back and work things out
internally.
3. Not taking care of yourself or letting yourself go. It really is a shame to see how many women think it's okay to stop working out and shaving
their legs as soon as they're in a relationship. If
anything, you should feel more motivated to make
the effort once things are more settled to keep the
attraction alive and intimate energy buzzing.
4. Not having your own life. Don't be one of those girls who forgets her friends and her interests as
soon as she has a man, it never ends well.
5. Being passive aggressive. Men are much more straightforward than women, if you tell him
nothing's wrong and then pout and mope around
waiting for him to press you further, you'll just
cause anger and resentment to build. Be honest and
straightforward with him if you have an issue.
6. Nagging. No guy is perfect, no man is capable of giving you every single thing you need. There
will be times when you're not happy with
something he's doing. If this happen, do not nag
him over it. The best strategy is to tell him what it
is you want (I love it when you do X) instead of
harping on what you don't want (Why don't you ever do Y?) 7. Not appreciating him. Again, stop looking at the things he isn't doing and look at what he is doing,
and then acknowledge and appreciate him for it!
The more you show you appreciate him, the more
he'll try to please you.
8. Being bitter/whiny/grouchy. We all have bad days, it's understandable. However, it's in your best
interest to try andbe happy and positive. No one
wants to hang around with a negative Nancy. In
general, we're drawn to people who are happy and
radiate a positive energy. Wake up with a smile, express gratitude, see the
good in your life and in your relationship. This
will not only help you in your relationships, but it
will make your life better overall.
9. Dumping your insecurities onto him. It's not his fault if you feel fat or your skin is breaking out
or you found a tiny wrinkle by your mouth, these
are your issues and hang ups so don't turn them into
relationship problems. If he's with you, it's a given that he finds you
attractive. Don't talk him out of his attraction by
highlighting all your flaws.
Chances are he won't even notice these things until
you point them out, so why draw attention to them?
Men are attracted to confident women so not only will you be making him a ware of your flaws,
you'll be diminishing his overall attraction to you.
10. Trying to change him. When you get into a relationship, you need to take that person for
exactly who he is, not who you want him to be. He
is who he is, take it or leave it. When it comes to minor things, like the fact that he
wears running shoes with dress pants, be gentle
and encouraging. Don't criticise and make him feel silly. Say
something that makes him feel good and inspires
him to make that change on his own, for instance
"You look really sexy in that outfit but it would be
even sexier with those loafers instead."
Lots Of Love. D—³—×—†—³—®———»'s CReeD
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